Dear Jasmine,
I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years and we got married. We haven’t been together for 3 years. He changed drastically in the 2 months that we were married so I left. The divorce and everything is pretty much my fault. My question is how do I move on? I know that I am over him even though I miss him occasionally.
I have been on several dates and dated people but for some reason I can never make the relationships work? I’m either annoyed by him or don’t even want to be touched. It gets this way with every guy that I date. Is it because I haven’t found the right person? Will I ever find the right person if I feel this way all the time? Please help?
Meg
USA
Dear Meg,
I do think that a large reason is because you have not found the right person yet. Sometimes it takes longer for a person to find the right person. You go on dates and nothing goes right and you start to wonder if there is something wrong with you. The answer is NO! Just because you haven’t met the right person, doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you or that you will never find the right person.
The truth is, you will never know when you will meet the right person. The right person comes along when your not expecting it and when your not even paying attention. So I suggest that you just go on and date and see what happens. Don’t be frustrated that the dates don’t work out. Among all those toads you date, you will eventually land yourself a prince. When that happens, you will realize that everything else you went through was worth the wait.
Live your life, take things one day at a time and don’t let the little things get to you. Eventually during this time, you will meet someone who will treat you right and you will be happy. Be patient and enjoy your life now. Don’t go looking for love, it will eventually find you.
Always here,
Jasmine
