Dear Jasmine,
Hey, it’s me again. I am writing you this time because I am having problems with my best friend. Ever since my best friend got a boyfriend its like she forgot all about me. The thing is I never did that to her when I had a boyfriend before.
Whenever my boyfriend would come over, I would invite her over too. I never put her on the back burner. Now it’s like whenever I try to get her to come over and hangout she can’t because she’s got plans with her mom. Which I know is a lie because her and her
Mom never do anything together.What can I do? It seems like she only wants something to do with me when I have something to offer her, like when I got my new truck she was always with me. How can I fix this problem?
Megan
Georgia
Dear Megan,
Whenever people get into relationships, they sometimes neglect their other relationships in their life. Just because you don’t do it when you get into a relationship, doesn’t mean others don’t. Sometimes when people are in a relationship, they want to spend alone time together. They may not always want to spend it with other people because they want some time to themselves.
Of course, your friend should make some time for you and I suspect you have not talked to her about it in depth. If she is your good friend, I suggest you really sit her down and talk to her about how you feel about the whole situation. I mean you can’t expect to hang out with you every free minute she has but let her know you do want to spend time with her and hopefully she can see where you are coming from.
If she doesn’t change, then maybe you really need to reassess your relationship with her. If a guy is more important to her then your friendship, then maybe you guys were not as good of friends as you thought. Whatever the case may be, don’t hesitate to talk to her because she could very well not know how badly she has made you feel.
Always here,
Jasmine
