Dear Jasmine,
I wrote to you before about my cheating fiancé. Things have not been going so well from that point on. There is more bad news than good news. The communication comes in spurts. When I try to tell him how I feel; he turns it into a joke. Therefore, I don’t say anything; I just keep my feelings to myself and deal with my problems by myself.
It is like I have to compare myself to the person he cheated with and to his friends being that he prefers to communicate with them. I have made up my mind to end the relationship for a numerous reasons. I feel like he is still cheating on me, he does not help financially like he suppose to, he says negative things to me.
He acts like he is tired when I want to have sex or other ways to turn it down. Today, he made remark to me that was negative. I asked him if he say things like that to his so-call female friends or am I the one who gets the negative because I am the everyday girlfriend.
He got upset and said that he was moving out. My answer to that was “WHENâ€. I know that I can do better by myself. I asked him when would he be leaving? He said a week then two weeks. Should I give him two weeks or does he need to leave as soon as possible.
Thanks for the advice.
Michelle J.
Tampa, FL
Dear Michelle,
I hope your good for nothing boyfriend has left. We both know that you deserve a lot better then what he was giving you. There is no reason for you to have to sit and listen to all his ridiculous comments. Trust was violated in your relationship that seems beyond repair at this point, due to his attitude towards you.
I think you are making the right decision to leave him. Don’t do him any favors by letting him stay longer because he sure didn’t do you any favors. Or maybe he did, by cheating on you and letting you see what a scumbag he is so you can move on and find someone better. Don’t compare yourself to the girl he cheated on you with. There is no reason to do that. He is not a trustworthy person and you should drop him like a bad habit and let the door hit him hard on the way out.
Always here,
Jasmine
