Dear Jasmine,
I broke up with my girlfriend after I found out she was cheating on me. We were together for 1 year when I found out. It has been about 4 months since we have broken up and we have kepted in touch. She started dating another guy about 2 months after we broke up and I was fine with it. She would talk to me about their problems and I would try my best to give her advice.
She just recently told me she still had feelings for me and that she regret what she had done. I am not sure what to make of this because I have basically moved on with my life. I am not dating anyone but it took me awhile to get over the hurt of being cheated on . I still care for her a lot and I am not sure what I should do.
Roy B.
Las Vegas, NV
Dear Roy,
I think it is safe to say that your ex girlfriend is not very trustworthy. Think about this, she is dating someone and telling you she wants to get back with you. I think this girl is trouble and you should be cautious when remaining in contact with her. She sounds like she is not a very loyal person and has not learned from her mistake. If she really regret the fact that she cheated on you, she shouldn’t be professing her love to you while having a boyfriend. That just shows how much she has not changed and how you are much better off without her.
I think it is good you can remain friends with her, but for the time being, I would suggest that you not remain so close with her. Give the both of you some time to fully get over this relationship because it sounds like the pain of it all is still lingering around and probably will continue to do so because you two have not fully let go yet. I hope you realize that getting back with her would more likely be a mistake because it sounds like she has not changed her ways.
Always here,
Jasmine
