Dear Jasmine,
I recently got out of a 7-month relationship with a guy. We broke up because of an age difference and because he was graduating and I still had a year left and he wouldn’t be able to do the long distance thing anymore than we had did the first 3 months of our relationship. He is now off at college and I am still stuck here and he will call when it’s convenient for him, which is barley ever.
I called him once and he said he would call me back but he didn’t. So then my friend called him to ask him why he didn’t call me back and he got mad and wouldn’t respond to my messages. I am scared that he will not meet me like we regularly do. He acts like he likes me but then again he doesn’t. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it or what should I do?
Kaylyn J.
Alabama
Dear Kaylyn,
I think what you have to realize is that you guys have broken up. You have to let go of this relationship like he has. He is giving you mix signals, which will make it harder for you to move on. He has gone to college, focus on yourself and graduating and going to college yourself. Don’t wait around for a guy who doesn’t give you the time of day. Also I would suggest that you keep your friends out of your relationship with him, I doubt that your friend calling him was a good thing. I know it will be hard but you have to move on without your ex boyfriend. I think it is best that you take some time away from him and concentrate on yourself. If you keep in contact with him or seeing him, it will just reserve the healing process for you to move on with your life. Give it time, but once you get over him, you will feel as if you never knew why you even liked him in the first place.
Always here,
Jasmine
