Dear Jasmine,
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months. He is recovering from drugs but for some reason I have a feeling he is using again.
How do I talk to him about this? Also I love him dearly but I think I may have fallen for someone else. My life is so confusing and I just want to die sometimes. If you have any advice please e-mail me.
Thanks,
Kayla
Decatur, Nebraska
Dear Kayla,
First off, you need to figure out how you truly feel. If you do not want to be with your boyfriend then you should not remain in this relationship with him while you have feelings for someone else. That would not be fair to him or to yourself. So take some time to figure this out before you proceed with your relationship with him.
In regards to his drug recovery, it is better not to jump to conclusions that he is using again but in order to find out, you will need to talk to him and let him know that you want to help him through the process. I don’t really recommend that you tell him both news at the same time but perhaps you can talk to him about this first, while you get some time to figure out your feelings.
Let him know that you do care for him deeply and you want to help him through this recovery process so that he can start to rebuild his life. Let him know that you will be there for him and that you are there to talk to him if he ever needs it.
Always here,
Jasmine
