Dear Jasmine,
I have been with my boyfriend on and off 8 months now. We were a great couple and I really do love him but things have changed. Lately I have cheated on him a few times but have admitted it to him after, he has admitted that he kissed one of my friends when we were on a break but we said we wouldn’t be with anyone else.
He told me this only because he thought she had told me. He also had only admitted it after 2 weeks. He then told me that he wanted to kiss one of my friends but didn’t because he was with me.
I don’t trust him and I still love him but there is no trust for him whatsoever. Is there anyway I can learn to forgive him again? Should I stay with him without trust? Or should we break up? Please respond soon.
Bridie
Dover, DE
Dear Bridie,
I think that your boyfriend may be unhappy in your relationship, as you are. However you two are just staying together due to the comfort of the relationship. However, I don’t think it is healthy for either of you to stay in a relationship with one another when it is obvious the both of you have commitment issues.
Relationships need trust and without it, the relationship will fall apart or make you go crazy. Don’t fall victim to that and cut your loses and move on.
Always here,
Jasmine
