Dear Jasmine,
I am confused. My ex wife is know married to the man that she cheated on me with. She married him in October. In December she filed for divorce. She started talking to me a lot the last couple of months.
I still love her but confused. She is telling me something and telling him something different. I don’t know what to do. I want what is best for her and I know this guy is not right for her but being a Godly man, I don’t want to give her the wrong advice. Please help
Aaron W.
Ward, AZ
Dear Aaron,
I think that your ex wife is in a vulnerable stage in her life right now. The right thing for you to do is not get emotionally involved again because you don’t want to take advantage of the vulnerable state she is in. If given time, she is ready to pursue something and you still love her then I say go for it but for the time being I would suggest you back off.
This relationship sounds like it could be potentially messy. Think things through before you decide if you ever want to pursue a relationship with her, don’t forget why you got a divorce and don’t be blinded by the idea of love and just getting back to her. It would just be another hassle to have to go through another marriage or another divorce, so I would proceed with extreme caution.
Always here,
Jasmine
