Dear Jasmine,
I was on vacation recently and met some really amazing people. There was this one man who I really clicked with. We go to the same university and live near each other when we are at school. He told me he was single.
We ended up having sex a couple of times on the trip. Once we got back home I found out he has a girlfriend. He seems to love her very much. Needless to say I was crushed and very disappointed.
But now he keeps emailing me and saying how much he misses me. Does he actually mean what he says, and if so should I trust him and hope he breaks up with his girlfriend?
I am scared to ask him about her because I don’t want to cause any tension or conflict. I do really like him even though he lied to me.
I also don’t think that he has told his girlfriend that he cheated on her. What should I do?Laurie M.
Sarnia, Ontario, Canada
Dear Laurie,
Stop thinking about yourself for a minute and think about how his girlfriend would feel. Then think about how you would feel if you were his girlfriend. This guy is obviously a lair and a cheater.
He is still lying to his girlfriend and still cheating on her. Is this the type of guy you want to be with? Getting with him would probably just complicate your life even more because I don’t see how you can ever trust this guy.
I say run for the hills and don’t turn back! This guy sounds like a scumbag and you are probably better off without him. I feel bad for his girlfriend because not only is he lying and cheating on her, he is jeopardizing her health by being intimate with others. Imagine if he did that to you.
Always here,
Jasmine
