Dear Jasmine,
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. She is 15 years old and I am 16 years old. We have had sex a few times before and we are greatly in love but lately many rumors have been circulating around about stuff and she has lied to me before about what I consider a big part of our relationship.
So now I find it hard to believe her when these rumors do start going around. One of the rumors now is she has had sex with many partners before me. So now I wonder is she satisfied. What do I do?
Cal
West Harrison, IN
Dear Cal,
A relationship should be about trust, communicate and honestly. If you cannot trust her, I would not suggest being in a relationship with her, especially an intimate relationship. I think you should sit her down and talk to her about it openly if you want to know what is going on with her and then decide for yourself if you believe her or not.
If you don’t then perhaps it is time to think about whether or not you should even be in this relationship with her. Remember to always use protection because if he she sexually active with others, it would really concern your sexual health too so communication is key.
You don’t want to be intimate with her if she isn’t honest with you about her sexual past because it could greatly affect you in more ways then you can imagine. Don’t jeopardize your health just to be intimate with her and satisfied her, at the end it won’t be worth it.
Always here,
Jasmine
