Dear Jasmine,
I have become really good friends with this one guy since last year. However, lately he has been avoiding me because he thinks that I am emotionally dependent on him or that I like him.
I do kind of like him but want to get out of it. Please help.
Thanks
Allie
Pakistan
Dear Allie,
I think that you should talk to your friend and let him know that you value his friendship and don’t want to take it beyond a friendship like he thinks. If you do like him, then you can’t really say that and you need to be honest with yourself and to him too.
If he chooses not to be friends with you, then how great of a guy could he have been in the first place? Whatever the case may be, you need to be honest with yourself and figure out what you want from this friendship. If you want to continue to stay friends, I think you should cool off for awhile because you must be doing something to make him feel uncomfortable around you.
Always here,
Jasmine
