Dear Jasmine,
I am in a bit of a situation. I work in an organization that has a lot of changes, specifically in the staff. The staff changes, but also has family ties. You see, I dated a co-worker for a few months and really didn’t have that wonderful connection that truly happens in a great relationship.
Now his older brother, whom I also work with, is interested in dating me. I am very hesitant in even exploring this possibility. The brother seems nice and is very subtle about how he approaches asking me out. Would it be wrong to date the older brother if I were attracted to him?
Alex
Grand Rapids, MI
Dear Alex,
I don’t think it would be wrong but at the same time I think your just asking for drama in your life. Dating a co worker is almost a no in most people’s situation and you not only found one guy to date but your on your second guy now. If that isn’t crying out for work drama I don’t know what is.
It is best to keep your work and personal life separate if possible, otherwise you may be looking for a new job in a few months because your relationship didn’t work out and you feel weird and awkward at work.
All I am saying is if you want to date him, go ahead but be prepare for all the drama that I am sure will follow with his brother, your work, etc.
Always here,
Jasmine
