Dear Jasmine,
I have been dating this guy for almost 1 year. I had recently gone through a separation after being married 8 years and I had to leave for one week to fill out paper work for my divorce. While I was away for that week, he messed round and brought that person to my house.
I found out because he had told her that he had a girlfriend so she got upset and told me the truth. We confronted my boyfriend and finally he said the truth. I am scared now and I don’t know if I want to give him a chance. He begs and begs and cries but I feel like he might do this again. We were a happy couple but he doesn’t know why he did that. Please give me some advice, thanks.
Jen
Orlando, FL
Dear Jen,
It sounds like this guy cannot be trusted. I don’t know what good it would be to take this guy back when he doesn’t know why he cheated and if he will cheat again. Even if he says he won’t cheat, do you really believe him?
Don’t get back with him because you have feelings for him but because you trust him. If you don’t then it is time to call it quits and move on because a relationship needs to have trust and if you don’t have it then you have already set it up for failing.
Always here,
Jasmine
