Dear Jasmine,
My girlfriend has confessed before me that she had another love long back but was purely by body. Yesterday she said she has allowed the person to touch her but was not intimate with him.
I still love her but do not know how to handle the situation. I am broken. I believe in the sanctity of women. She said that she only loves me and no one else and would be mine alone. Please help me out.
Vivek K.
Bangalore, India
Dear Vivek,
You have to realize that most people you date will probably have dated someone else before you. You need to focus on the relationship with her and not so much her past. You have to realize that everyone has a past, some things you may not like and some things you may be okay with.
If you cannot deal with it, then I don’t think there is much future for you in this relationship or any relationship at all. Of course, you have to draw the line at some point but that is for you to determine and if your girlfriend has crossed the line in your eyes, I don’t see how you can continue this relationship with her unless you can move on from it.
Always here,
Jasmine
