Dear Jasmine,
I met this older woman and she is 14 years old then me. I am currently 32 years old and no kids and she has 3 grown kids and also grandchildren.
We are both happy but her old ex boyfriend calls her on cell every day from prison. And plus she has another ex boyfriend who got out jail two months ago. They are both crazy we both have had bad relationships in the past.
Everything was going good until her ex boyfriend keeps calling her. I feel my life is in danger should I worry? She does not want to lose me but I feel that is going to happen.
She has not even got divorced from her first husband. Been waiting four years now. What should I do? She is talking about getting married to me and I am not sure?
Joseph
Union Gap, WA
Dear Joseph,
It sure sounds like you have your hands full with this one. I don’t know the entire situation but from what you have been telling me, it sounds like this woman has some serious issues.
How many people date someone who has gone to prison twice? I mean I think the chances are fairly low to find someone who doesn’t have problems dating someone who is in prison or ends up there.
As far as the fact that she is still married, raises another red flag for me. I would really ask you to think this relationship through and think about what kind of person she really is and if you really want to get yourself mixed up with all the drama of her past because it sounds like the past is not staying in the past.
You have to let go of the past to move on with the future. This may be what you need to do for yourself.
Always here,
Jasmine
