Dear Jasmine,
I have been dating a guy for just over a month during this time we argued a lot so I decided to call it a day, which he was fine with. Since doing this I can’t stop thinking about it and that I really want him back.
I told him this but he now doesn’t want to know. The other night I foolishly slept with him and I thought this may change his mind, which it hasn’t and now I feel so bad.
Why do I still like him and want him back when I know he doesn’t care for me like I do for him? Please help.
Mary
Nottingham, UK
Dear Mary,
You have allow your feelings for him cloud your judgment. Since this guy didn’t really want to get back with you, sleeping with him wasn’t the answer. That may have even let him know that you would be willing to sleep with him even though you are not together.
Ask yourself why you want to get back with this guy. All you guys did was fight all the time and he didn’t blink an eye when you wanted to break up. This guy is bad news and the quicker you realize that and try to move on, the better.
The longer you sit around and mope about this guy, the longer it will take you to find the guy who will treat you right.
Always here,
Jasmine
