Dear Jasmine,
I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. My best friend of 12 years recently got together with his brother. His brother had a few problems in the past with gambling etc but since he got together with my friend, he really cleaned his act up.
She is his first serious girlfriend that he has committed to and he treats her like a princess. Anyway, I recently discovered that he has been cheating on her and I was shocked.
I feel that it’s my duty to tell my friend, but I don’t want to fall out with my boyfriends brother either, as were quite close. I don’t want to be labeled the person who is stirring it up but I feel as though I am betraying a friend who is being nothing but loyal to me since I have known her. I feel she deserves to know the truth. Please help, what should I do for the best?
Jade H.
Essex, United Kingdom
Dear Jade,
If he is cheating on your friend, you let your boyfriend know that and that you are going to tell your friend. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to, then that tells you something about your boyfriend that you may need to think about. What his brother is doing is wrong and your friend deserves to know.
If you have a fall out with his brother this, it might as well, why would you want to be friends with someone like that? This could be a good chance to see how your boyfriend reacts to this kind of situation. That way if he wants to hide it from your friend then you know what kind of guy your boyfriend truly is.
Always here,
Jasmine
