Dear Jasmine,
I have been talking to this guy for the last two years. He is 3 years younger then me. Last year, he showed a lot of interest in me but the problem is we talked through Myspace and hardly ever in person.
But it was obvious we were attracted to each other, just a little shy. As time went by, we started talking less and less, but I have always been super interested and he seemed kind of interested.
Like we would make eye contact in the hall and smile but he doesn’t seem as interested. Within the last month, I started dating a friend of his. Not a close friend, but they talk.
Well I dated him for about 2 weeks or so and then broke up with him after Christmas. On New Years Eve, I ended up seeing the guy that I have been interested in at a party that I was at.
We kind of hooked up. Yesterday was our first day after Christmas break, and the first time I saw him since. Everyone knows about what happened on New Years Eve. Anyway, we walk past each other, smiled and just look to the floor.
Now what I came to you was to ask, do you think he is really interested in me or do you think he got what he always wanted.
G.E.H.
United States
Dear G,
This is a very simple question. I can give you an answer and you can also guess the answer. The only way you will know the answer is to talk to him. But don’t do it online, do it in person.
You two may both just be extremely shy but then again, you guys were not shy enough to hook up. If you two can be mature enough to hook up then be mature enough to at least talk to each other in person.
Next time you see him, ask him to have lunch with you or something and you guys can actually talk. The way someone is online and the way they talk, is not necessarily the way they are in person. You may find that you may not even like him but rather his online persona.
Two years is a long time to drag this on, I say talk to him, find out what is going on and either move forward with your relationship or move on without him.
Always here,
Jasmine
