Dear Jasmine,
I have no clue what is going on, I mean I am pissed and depressed at the same time!!! I guess I misunderstood my girlfriend when I asked her out the second time. When I asked her out again, she told me it was a halfway thing. So I was said okay, so I will take that as a yes and she said that was pretty much correct. But I just got off the phone with her and things did not go well at all.
She told me that we were not boyfriend and girlfriend and she did not understand why I would call her that and I told her that we were boyfriend and girlfriend and she said that we weren’t. So then went a few awkward moments and I asked her for another chance. She would not say a thing.
Then I asked her again and she has nothing to say. I kept asking her until she say sure and I asked her if she was lying to me or not and she would not answer me. I told her that I still feel that vibe with her and she didn’t say anything. So I was like I guess you don’t feel the same anymore then do you and she replied that she did.
So after that she said she had to go and I asked her if I could call her tomorrow and she said I could. Right now I have no clue what to do or what is going on. I have no clue what to do. I don’t know how in the world you would have any advice for me now, but give as much as possible. I need her back.
Matt
Arkansas
Dear Matt,
A person can care or feel the same for you, yet not want to date you. You need to have a serious talk with her to figure out what is going on, whether or not she wants to date you or not. Keep in mind that just because she likes you, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to be with you. She can like you and other people, or maybe she just doesn’t want a relationship. No one knows expect for her and you can’t sit around guessing all day. Talk with her and ask her what is going on, if she still doesn’t want to date you, then you need to respect her wishes and move on.
Always here,
Jasmine
