Dear Jasmine,
My boss always flirted with me and it ended up that I am having an affair with him. He even took my virginity and tha is stupid of me. He already have a girlfriend and they will getting married soon. At first, I just want to have fun with him but now it involves my feeling. I think I love him.
I got jealous with his girlfriend, even though I know I don’t have a right for that. I want to stop this affair but everytime I become weak and I just can’t stop it. Also I am afraid it will affect my job since he is my boss. Sometimes I feel I am being used. What should I do? Please help me.
Finny
Dear Finny,
This is a really serious situation that you have put yourself in. I think it may be wise for you to start looking for a job elsewhere. At the meantime, I know it is hard for you, but your boss is truly a jerk. He is abusing his power as your boss and cheating on his girlfriend. This is not the kind of guy you want to end up with. I feel sorry for you and for any girl that has to be involved with this guy.
If you want to stay at this job, which I think would be hard for you, but if you do, I would stop this affair right away. Then if he keeps making these advances, document them and keep a record of it. That way if he fires you for an unfair reason, you can consult a lawyer to see what your options are.
You think you are in love but if you are, you are in love with the wrong guy. You should be with someone who is honest and loves only you. He is neither of these. Don’t allow him to continue to control you with his inapproiate behavior.
Always here,
Jasmine
